Everything doesn’t happen for a reason

Everything happens for a reason.

I cringe every time I hear this phrase. Every. Time. It’s a lie. Some things DON’T make sense. There is no “reason” for some events. If you can pick yourself up after loss, if you can go on after tragedy, congratulations. But don’t tell me it’s good or it’s part of some big cosmic plan. You don’t know that. You don’t know anything.

Last week I watched 50 women in a silent protest, walking up and down a crowded pedestrian mall.  The carried pictures of their children. Their teen-aged sons were taken from their homes in the middle of the night by police, just because they were Kurds who protested in a peaceful demonstration. They don’t know what happened to their children, but they were probably beaten to death. Most have never been heard from again. These woman were certainly risking their lives by protesting.

I’m happy to say that as they passed, everyone got out of their way, removed their hats and applauded. That was beautiful, but it isn’t a reason. The applause doesn’t make it OK.

Are you going to look these woman in the eye and say “everything happens for a reason?”

This is the article that prompted this.
http://www.timjlawrence.com/blog/2015/10/19/everything-doesnt-happen-for-a-reason